Most people think taking your success to the next level requires tons and tons of “willpower”…

… but the truth is, that’s really not the case.

In reality, you only need a dose of “Inevitability Thinking” and lessons in “Hot State Management”, which is where the whole Breakthrough to Success concept
comes from.

Remember, a plan based 100% on willpower is 100% doomed to fail.

Willpower is REACTIVE.

Hot State Management is PROACTIVE

When you’re in a reactive state of mind, you feel victimized and out of control.

Don’t do that to yourself.

There’s a much better way…

Did you know that most magazines and websites only serve to BEAT YOU DOWN and make you feel bad about yourself? Make sure your actions are based on YOUR GOALS and what YOU want. Anyone that’s trying to challenge your “manhood” is likely broke. Trust me on that.

Tips to break free from the shackles of people pleasing Find a greater fear: The best way to overcome people pleasing is to find the source of the problem and then counteract it with an opposite and stronger emotion.  What is people pleasing keeping you from doing or being?  Figure this out and then use [...]

There’s nothing wrong with pleasing people, as long as you have control over why you are pleasing them. Making sacrifices for the sake of another isn’t wrong. But the fact is, people pleasing isn’t about pleasing others, but fending off our fear of rejection. A lot of people pleasing is individuals who have a need to be accepted by the world around them. It’s a need not just for general acceptance, but for acceptance from each person they come in contact with. It can become a madness, seeking to please with abandon.

When you are aware that people admire you, it seems to have more of a humbling effect. Admiration tends to be accepted quietly and confidently. This quiet acceptance builds a lot of trust in others and they start to see you as a leader.

If you have a sense of sacrifice in anything you do you are probably in the wrong game. Enjoy what you do and you have a greater chance of success. Life can be so easy to enjoy if you make the choice.

Having the confidence and self trust in yourself to get things done just may be the MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY YOU CAN EVER HAVE in this modern age.

Sometimes we can be either our own worst enemy or our own best friend.